The Wisdom of Giving Up

During these days, I've found that a lovelorn netizen is suffering from the past feelings,interwined. Here I'd like to tell this netizen that we will surely futher know and understand a lot of things only after we have indeed experienced them. Only when you have a painful feeling, then can you know how to learn to protect youself; also only after you are so silly, then can you understand how to persist and give up timely.

During this process of attaining and losing, we slowly learn to know ourselves deeply and completely. As a matter of fact, life does really not need these unreasonal and unnecessary attachment, nothing so precious for us not to let go.

Learn to give up, and you will evidently find that life itself will be so easier.

Speaking of emotional choices, many people experiencing suffering of emotions can think they have missed a certain period of life, which in fact is not always true. Some so-called losses only mean that we can do nothing just like a turtle on its back and are unable to control the future of ouw own.

Take some girls for example who are eager to achieve their own aspirations of life and dream, they often try to make their gaols true by using the most primitive and also most effective way to retain men of wealth. They have resulted in keeping men aside without his heart inside, hurting themselves at last. We can find such one thing after another around us.

Never be upset and regretful after something has happened, lying awake and tossing youself throughout the night. Remain silent when you are wandering and wondering and when you are indecisive because silence is also a kind of option and wisdom. I like the lyrics that read: "If you go back to the past, all will be repeated." Subject to many factors, the hero of story turns left at one time and then turn right at other time.

The accepted practice many people follow is to be a frog to become a prince, retreating in order to proceed, but unfortunately some of people are really giving up. But what we really want to give up is only our broken emtions, not our own, on the contrary, we should constantly enrich ourselves.

Just like a girl descriped by an article from Reader, she scarred emotionally on the love way, but each obstacle made her much more courageous and grew much braver than ever because she always continuously enriched herself after each frustration and setbacks. This time she learned to play the piano just for her love and next time she again tried to improve English and so on. All she did evantually enhanced herself in everything, most importantly in emotion. And in the end she became an elegant woman that she wanted to be.

Often reading these words, I will be touched inside, and admire them from inside bottom of my heart on account of their courage and strength.

Any man who learns to give up is a real man of wisdom only because giving up means another choice and not complete retreat forever not only in emotion but in our daily work. So it applies to everything.